Monday, January 26, 2009

More Monday Miscellaneous


I seem to have trouble keeping up with my life these days. Usually, on Sundays I write a bunch of blog posts for the week. I didn't do that yesterday. We'll see how I do at posting regularly this week. My schedule is going to be intense.

To start the week, however, I'm going to answer a couple of questions people asked on Saturday.

Writers' Group
A couple of people asked about writers' group. Not all groups are run the same, but this is how ours works. Our writers' group meets once a month. We exchange pieces that we've written before the meeting (either by passing it out the month before or by e-mailing a minimum of a week ahead of time to give people time to read). Then at the meeting the other members critique each piece that was submitted and offer suggestions. The purpose of our group is to help each person meet his or her own goal as a writer. We don't insist that everyone strive for publication. If their goal is to write a memoir for their family or something equally private, that's ok with us. During the critique, we ask that people say positive as well as critical things about the work. We have a rule that people aren't allowed to defend their writing ("You don't understand; this is what it's really saying"), but so far we've never had to enforce it. The group is small, but it's been meeting regularly for a year-and-a-half.

Murder Mystery Dinner
Michael and I didn't know what to expect here. From what I understand, with a small murder mystery dinner, each guest plays one of the roles and you don't know whether you're going to end up as the murderer or not. This dinner wasn't like that because it was a large group (about 50, I think). So the way it worked was that a cast gave little speeches about their relationship with the victim, and then they went around to the tables as we ate dinner and we could ask them questions. We had a set of questions we were supposed to ask each one, although we could add our own questions too. There were three rounds of speeches followed by questions, and then each table had to work as a team to guess who did it and why.

Michael and I were surprised that there wasn't any emphasis on clues--the weapon, footprints, broken objects, and the like. After we got home, I looked up the company the supplied the game and discovered that they categorize their games into character-based games and clue-based games. The one we were doing was a character-based game. We felt a little letdown that there wasn't much emphasis on clues. Before doing it, we assumed that both clues and character would be mixed. I don't know if all murder mystery game companies do it the same way or not. The other thing that took us back a little was the solution. In the particular game we played, the death turned out not to be a murder but an accident that someone was covering up for self-protection. So we felt it was a bit misleading. No one solved it correctly, although one table did guess that the person involved had committed the crime with his lover.

However, we still had a great time. The best part of it was watching friends from church act out all these silly characters and just have a great time hamming it up. Parts of it were very funny. It was interesting working as a team; some of the people at my table were folks I don't interact with often. They split Michael and me into separate groups, which isn't our normal way of doing things, but I can see why they did it that way. Everyone had managed to put together a costume for his or her character. Also, the mystery was set in an English manse, so the committee that put it on made an English-themed dinner for us: shepherd's pie and trifle. It tasted good, so I blew off my diet for the night and ate it all.

I think I'd do it again. The unexpected aspects of the event wouldn't bother me so much a second time if I knew what to expect. I also think it might be fun to try a smaller one sometime that made it seem more like I was really inside the mystery. 

Have any of you done murder mysteries and what type were they?

16 comments:

Cheryl said...

I've never written a post in advance, although I do have a video I'm waiting to post. Good idea.

I think it would be fun to get a group of people together for a murder mystery event. Too bad your group wasn't informed of the different options beforehand. Still, it was fun, right? And something out of the ordinary.

Juliann in WA said...

Thanks for the information on your writing group.
I haven't been to a Murder Mystery but we were on the Dinner Train one night and there was one going on in the other car and it sounded like fun.

Tara said...

Both things sound fun. I've always wondered about the murder mystery dinners. I, too, would think there would be some emphasis on physical clues. I've been after my parents to write about their lives. My uncle wrote about his and it became a published book!

Dawn said...

I've never been to a murder mystery dinner but think I would love it, especially if I got to dress up and act one of the parts.

Kathy said...

I'm not sure I'd like a mystery dinner. Admittedly, I've had no experience with them, but I don't like surprises. Maybe I've watched too much COLUMBO when something horrible always goes wrong!

Choralgirl said...

I played one of those games about 10 years ago. It was a lot of fun! I was happy to discover I wasn't the culprit, tho. :-)

Sherry Peyton said...

Sounds like fun Ruth. I've only seem them done on tv shows, but I have heard about them in general. I'd be willing to give it a try surely.

I admire your ability to write posts for the whole week. I'm always scrambling it seems!

I think I might like a writer's group, but I'm not sure I would be up to the criticism. There is a certain anonymity on the net of course. I'm not sure I would do well face to face with people reading my inner thoughts and opinions and then critiquing them. But the idea sounds intriguing for sure!

FranIAm said...

I would love to be in a writer's group- yours sounds wonderful.

And I did do a mystery once, it was clue based and VERY fun, more fun than I had imagined.

Songbird said...

I've always wanted to go to one of those mystery dinners!

Sharon said...

I have never gone to a murder mystery dinner, but they sound fun. Blogging is so fun, but it is hard to keep up with sometimes!

Sara said...

Hi Ruth, you've been having some adventures....they sound like fun.

Writing posts ahead of time sounds like a lot of work to me! Though I imagine it may save time. I sit here and compose on the spot, and fill in photos or look up things to add and it can take quite a while. I never have much of a plan....just whatever comes to me. Usually.

When I opened your blog and saw the snow in your header it was a bit of a surprise...oh yes, it IS still cold and snowy in much of the country isn't it. Your header photo is quite pretty...

Enjoy your week.

Sara

zorra said...

The murder mystery dinner sounds like fun. In college we used to have fun playing Murder in the Dark.

Barbara B. said...

It was cool reading about both your group and the dinner!

Sis said...

My daughter's 16th birthday party was a beauty pageant murder mystery, and was loads of fun; something she'll never forget and neither will we.
XOXO

Lauralew said...

Thanks for the comments on your writing group. That sounds like fun--and a challenge. I think it is good to see how others receive what one may think is great work.

Mystery Maiden said...

Hi Ruth,

Not all companies do it like that, with the character and clue games separate. It still sounds like you all had fun though - with the right group hamming it up, you're guaranteed a good time!

:)
Leigh Clements
The Mystery Maiden
Shot In The Dark Mysteries.com